Grief Books

Este libro te servirá para tener mejores armas para lidear la pena del niño, así como las dudas o preguntas que tuvieras al respecto.

Porque cuando nuestro hijo o hija sufre una pena grandfe ( desde la muerte de un familiar hasta la pèrdida de su mascota ) es VITAL que conozcamos los mejores instrumentos para confortarlo y evitar que le queden imborrables cicatrices emocionales.
Este libro, hecbo por un especialista en niños, el doctor Childen, nos ofrece las mejores armas para mitigar la pena del nene, asi como las mejores explicaciones para esas preguntas inesperadas que nos hace cuando està en estado de shock, como "¿Y mi perro irà al cielo???"

NO dejes de tenerlo... Si nos equivocamos aunque sea un poco al explicar y consolar al niño, la herida serà imborrable !

Muy bien escrito, tierno y amoroso...
Te lo recomiendo muchìsimo!

After the death of my husband, I got this book as a gift. It has helped me more than I could ever express. That was almost five years ago, but I still read it everday. I would highly recommend it for everybody, not just grieving people.Get it! You will be glad that you did.

I have read both of the authors books and I find myself always being blessed as I read them. He always touches upon just what I need to be reading for that day in my devotions. He has a way of taking you the place that he is speaking of that day. I have learned so much about faith, life, God's unspeakable love and compassion from this book. It is a must have for daily devotions. I found myself not wanting to stop at reading just one day at a time. I am hopeful that the author will go on to continue sharing life experiences with us all. It is a welcome addition to any library and I do recommend it highly! Thank you for another wonderful book!

"The LORD bless thee, and keep thee: The LORD make His face shine upon thee, and be gracious unto thee: The LORD lift up His countenance upon thee, and give thee peace."
-Number 6:24-26 (Author's choice selection scripture)

Angela A. Dockter-Harris has written a very unique book: "Dance in the Rain: Joy Comes in the Mourning." for those facing the loss of a loved one as well as those facing death themselves.

There are many uses for this book. It is presented in two parts and provides sections for personalization. It is part journal and part bible study, in essence it is a workbook tool that does indeed herald Psalms 30:5

"For his anger endureth but a moment; in His favour is life: weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.'

Part One - Journaling
`Remembering the Person I Love` - allows the reader to document the details of their parent, spouse, child, adult, or friend with a special section for unborn child, infant, or toddler.

`The Gift I leave You` - provides the person facing death a place to record their details, thoughts, and memories to be left for loved ones after they pass.

`The Loss` - provides a section for those suffering the loss of a loved one a place to record the days after the death of their loved one.

Part Two - Bible Study
`When a Loved One Isn't Saved` - directs the reader to biblical references of salvation assurance.

`Anger` - directs the reader to scripture that addresses the inevitable anger that overtakes many at the loss of a loved one.

`Sorrow` - directs the reader to what the bible says about sorrow's true purpose in our lives.

`Acceptance` - directs the reader to the peace that results from the hope in Jesus Christ.

A very versatile book with sound scripture application for the many stages of loss, grief, and the emotions that encompass us during such times.

Gina Hendrix
Vessel Project Book Reviewer
http://vesselproject.blogspot.com

Unique. Can be personalized to many situations and losses. Includes section for those who are dying as well as those who have already lost someone. Great for teenagers up thru adult. Very Helpful. Answers spiritual questions. Makes it easier to talk about the dying experience. Highly recommend.

This is a truly inspirational book for anyone who has lost a loved one and is grieving. It will provide confirmation that we do not die, our spirit lives on and we will meet aganin in love. A must read.

Wonderful heartfelt book. Couldn't put it down. One woman's journey of personal redemption after experiencing a Near Death Experience. Her story has a profound message of unconditional love available to all and that no matter how difficult one may think of this life or of little value one has as a human being, her experience indicates we all have a unique purpose and there is a God who loves all just as we are. Gives hope for those who have lost a loved one or is fearful of death in that we don't die. One of the most honest, easy to read NDE stories. Highly recommended for anyone seeking to know what might happens after we die, or even if by suicide.

For the past two years, Ryan has basically checked out. He spends most of his time getting stoned with his best (ok, only) friend, Andy. Andy is overweight and lazy, and Ryan hates to admit it, but all those sessions smoking pot in an old tree house (and then giving in to the munchies) might have him heading in the same direction. When he's not hanging out with Andy, Ryan shuts out the world by sticking in some headphones and escaping with music.

Why is Ryan so down on life? It might have something to do with the death of his younger sister from cancer. Ryan always saw himself as Molly's protector, but even he couldn't protect her from the disease that claimed her life. Ryan is not finding much support at home, either; his mom is always busy singing with her choral group (and flirting with one of its members), while his dad has thrown himself so far into work that he doesn't seem to care what his wife or son is up to. If Ryan's parents are having such a tough time dealing with Molly's death in a healthy way, how is Ryan supposed to do so?

Unexpectedly, it's when another girl ends up in the hospital that Ryan starts to feel like living again. He doesn't really know Charlotte Silano, a gorgeous, popular senior who has never given him a second glance. But when she's in a coma following a riding accident, he finds himself drawn to her hospital room. Ryan can't quite explain it, but he keeps going back to the bedside of this girl he doesn't know. When his hospital visits connect him with a seriously ill young boy and with some new friends --- especially Charlotte's volleyball teammate, Betty --- Ryan just might have found a reason to unplug his headphones, get some great vintage duds, head to the gym and check back into the world.

From the title, you might expect DEADVILLE to be a big downer (or maybe a zombie novel). Surprisingly, given its subject matter, it ends up being a hopeful novel even as it acknowledges the deep scars traced by grief. The verbal banter between Ryan and his friends --- especially Andy and Betty --- keeps the mood light, and even though Ryan's loss is dealt with painfully and authentically, his attempts to shake others, especially his dad, out of their own malaise of grief also seem honest and true-to-life. DEADVILLE is a balanced, carefully written portrayal of one young man's response to death --- and his journey back to the living.

--- Reviewed by Norah Piehl

The most popular girl in school fell off a horse and she's now in a coma in a nearby hospital. Ryan finds himself drawn to her bedside, even though he is most definitely not in her social circle or even the distant stratosphere of her world. Does he visit her because she is perhaps the hottest girl in school, or because he hopes to move in on her absent boyfriend's territory, or because two years ago he lost his own sister in her battle against cancer?

The strange thing is that Ryan doesn't really know why he visits this girl in a coma. It's just something he feels he must do.

Running parallel to the Charlotte Silano coma-girl story are several other captivating plot lines.

Ryan's visits to the hospital allow him to meet and develop a relationship with Betty, another girl from school who previously didn't really hang in the same crowd with Ryan. There is also the strained relationship between Ryan and his parents. He maintains a fairly normal mother/son relationship, but the connection between father and son has deteriorated to almost nothing since the death of his sister, Molly. It's not just a problem for Ryan, since his father has seemingly cut ties with his wife, as well. He has changed his whole lifestyle, right down to his choice of a vegan menu. Ryan's mother has chosen to throw herself into yoga and meditation to cope with the loss of her daughter. It seems a healthy avenue to stress relief, but she appears to be getting a bit too close to her instructor, causing Ryan to fear for his parents' marriage.

One benefit of Ryan's frequent visits to Charlotte's hospital room is that he is putting some distance between his so-called friend, Andy, and the never-ending supply of pot that has so far been getting him through his periods of grief. Is it possible to stay sober and confront tough times long enough to pull himself together? That's the question facing Ryan for most of DEADVILLE.

Ron Koertge successfully takes readers into Ryan's world of emotional stress and pain. Everyone has their own way of coping, and DEADVILLE illustrates them all in a direct, straight-forward style.

Reviewed by: Sally Kruger, aka "Readingjunky"

Amazon lists a lot of old editions of this book--most prominently the tenth. The 14th edition is the current one, and the only one with up-to-date information. It is readily available. The old, out-of-print editions have information that is out of date. If you are looking at a listing that says "out of print," that is not the current book. Make the effort to find the current, in-print, 14th edition!

When our son was dying from a rare disease called Hurler Sydrome my wife picked up a copy of this book. Using information in this book allowed us to have our son die at home. I built his coffin and we laid him out for 3 days before his funeral service at our church. He was the first funeral in the church in which a body was actually present. My close friends and I hand dug his grave and placed the concrete liner. His burial service was attended by his young friends and they helped us fill the hole after his coffin was placed. This book gave us up to date and very realistic information. It is written with senistivity and is an essential guide for those wishing to forgo the services of an expensive funeral home. This book eased our sorrow. Marshall Hansen, Arcata, California

Review of Dear Daddy
By Susan E. Richmond

Dear Daddy is a heart touching novel that plunges into the depths of a grief stricken thirteen year old girl. Susan Richmond beautifully captures the many feelings of despair, fear and even joy in Jessica's own words as the girl plunges into a river of deep emotions searching for the path to recovery.

The story begins with Jessica sitting in a steel, cold hospital waiting room and dreading the arrival of her mother. The girl runs through her mind the details that she will have to give to her mom about the accident and this is more than she can bare. Sadly, the child soon finds that she will not be able to communicate anything to her mother, as the woman has put up an invisible wall between herself and the rest of the world. Jessica tries to find a way to get through to her mother who has stepped into her own living hell and refuses to be released but all her efforts seem in vain. To make matters worse it appears that Jessica's presence infuriates the parent that once loved her so much, which adds to the child's confusion.

The girl remembers her father's last words and all the things she knows he would expect from her. She valiantly tries to deal with her own loss and with the strange person her mother has become. Though Jessica is locked into a world turned upside down, her communication with her father through her diary is a precious link to hope and promise.
Jessica is wise beyond her years and explores emotions that no child should ever have to feel. The girl pleads to the spirit of the man she loved so much to come to her aid but she soon finds that the path to the peace she must find lies within her own mind. She only hopes she is strong enough to find it and to lead her mother there as well, before the dark cloud of grief and pain overcomes them both.

Susan Richmond is a talented author that has the rare ability to combine the rich texture of smoothly written words creating an unforgettable story. I could feel the genuine pain in each step of the grief that Jessica went through and I smiled at every triumph the girl managed to obtain. The gift of a true storyteller is to be able to capture the mind, body and soul of all who hear their stories. There is not a doubt in my mind that Susan is one of these unique individuals, for Dear Daddy shall be etched in my memory forever.

Thank you, Susan, for an incredible read and an amazing journey. I look forward to seeing much more of your thrilling work in many books to come. Best of luck to you and all your endeavors.

Reviewed by T.A. Von Reiman for Writer's Nook and Reader's Corner

While "Dear Daddy" is being presented in present-tense, diary-like style, Author Susan Richmond's novel allows the reader to experience a thirteen-year-old girl's pain due to the loss of her father to a terrible tragedy.

The drama unfolds as if young Jessica is talking to the reader, narrating the twenty-eight days of her loneliness, worries, grief and pain. At the same time, Jessica's mother shuts herself off from reality, and her daughter, in the Thornton household.

What happened to Jessica's daddy?...Will Jessica ever get over her daddy's death?...Will her mom, who has isolated herself from Jessica?...Why was it so difficult for Mom to face Jessica, or to get close to her daughter? With these burning questions, the author held my interest until the very last sentence-which ends with Jessica's ultimate healing--signs from "Dear Daddy".

Jan Farris Ezelle, author of Brewnie: A Harvester's Tale / http://www.brewnie.com

This is a very heartfelt book that looks at grief in a very honest way. She shares each of the letters that she wrote to her husband after he passed away. Very touching and a great book for anyone going through grief to pick up.

Christine rips herself open and spills out onto the pages of a journal she started writing just days after Dennis, the love of her life, her husband of almost 30 years dies suddenly. These are nightly letters to him that are so personal you almost feel like you might get "caught" reading them. You will find yourself weeping with her, cheering for her and at times thinking "No! Stop!". This is not an easy book to read, but it's so worth persevering to the end. There's certainly no "tra-la-la" happy ending but an honest and real one. Although it will leave you hoping for a sequel!

If you are ever faced with life's deepest tragedy - the death of your own child - this book is one to keep near you. Divided into sections featuring letters to those who have dealt with death via illness, sudden/unexpected death, infant death, there are also sections of heart-felt writings from siblings of the deceased and caring others.

With exception to a few, each letter to the parent is written by a survivor and veteran - ones who has been-there-and-done-that. Each can relate in a meaningful way to what you face. The most important quality of this book, however, is that it is encouraging, inspiring and gives the grieving reader such a realistic hope for the future.

If there is a person in your life who has lost a child, this is the book to gift them with. It will be their survival guide long after the funeral and remembered after the flowers have faded. The book is also instrumental in educating any who think they can imagine the magnitude of this type of grief but really can't - those who try to comfort by trying to change the subject toward more "happy" thoughts, those who think bringing up the child's name brings on tears, the ones who insist a parent could or should heal themselves right away to move on with life and the spectrum of other misguided words and actions that do more harm than good.

Although written about death, this book, more so, is written about life. In light of that, I recommend it to anyone.

This book has fabulous letters from parents and others such as author Dean Koontz and Elisabeth Kubler-Ross from bereaved parents to bereaved parents and you can believe these people! They've been there and worn the T-shirt. It's fabulous for anyone who has experienced the death of a child.

This is a very touching book about the loss of a teenage daughter, written by her father. While it is extremely sad to read, I think it could be very helpful for anyone who has lost a child near and dear to them. Mr. d'Afflisio's journey from the near total devastation of his family from this tragic loss, to a kind of acceptance is instructional. He is a beautiful writer and someone who looks to himself and God for an answer to this unanswerable question of death much too soon.

An intensely personal journey through grief. Searingly honest and unbearably sad -- and full of hope.