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Child-Development
Now I'm Reading!: Amazing Animals - Level 2
Published in Hardcover by Innovative Kids (2001-08-01)
Author: Nora Gaydos
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My daughter really start to read using this books
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Review Date: 2008-02-28
Nice, colorful, easy to read and has 40!!! stickers, which are the most important part after the kid reads the book. Organized in one full book.

wonderful reading books
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Review Date: 2008-02-08
I have recommended these books to all of my friends. They have helped my 4-year-old (born October) read and he LOVES to read them every day, twice a day. He can read sentences with ease like "I want a plane and a crane" or "The hot dog is on a log." In a matter of one month he's learned to read. The stickers offer a great incentive and make it so much fun for him. I have bought these for kids birthday presents (they have enough toys already, right!) and have 5 of them at my home. I wish there were more!

excellent book
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Review Date: 2006-11-11
The best way to expose your child to reading. My daughter reads a couple books on most nights and she has improved dramatically over the past months. She enjoys reading the stories and putting a sticker on each time she does. Every parent that cares about education should get these books for their kids.

great series for new readers
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Review Date: 2007-12-21
Great for blossoming readers. My kindergartener is really enjoying these funny short books. He loves seeing what happens next as he sounds out new words. My only complaint is that in this series as well as the level 3 the font isn't appropriate for new readers. The "g" is cursive looking & is very confusing. Don't know why that changed from the pre-readers & level 1&2, disappointing.

Perfect for young readers!
Helpful Votes: 4 out of 4 total.
Review Date: 2006-08-07
I bought this for my 4 yr old after having used the first two sets of Bob Books (scholastic). Now I'm Reading!: Amazing Animals is an excellent next step! Amazing Animals introduces long vowel sounds and vowel pairs (digraphs) in managable chunks.

This set is great for kids who are intimidated by the usual graded learning-to-read books (like Danny and the Dinosaur) or books which rely on the repitition of longer sight words.

Younger readers benefit from these short funny texts with lots of words worthy of sounding out. The illustrations and vibrant colors have kept my dughter enthused through out.

Young children can learn to read too with patience and these great books.

Child-Development
Beyond Tears: Living After Losing a Child, Revised Edition
Published in Paperback by St. Martin's Griffin (2009-03-03)
Author: Ellen Mitchell
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Things your friends don't say
Helpful Votes: 1 out of 1 total.
Review Date: 2008-03-25
Only a grieving parent can speak to another, after the loss of a child - for no one knows the depths to which one sinks - and this book does let you know that there are others out there and that you are not alone in feeling this will never end - and that it will always be with you, but you will be prepared for your despair....But wait at least a year before you read it...

A MUST READ!!!!
Helpful Votes: 2 out of 2 total.
Review Date: 2008-08-27
Unfortunately for me, I bought and read this book because I have walked the walk. I lost my son 2 years ago in a car accident. This book touched on everything i've thought, felt, said to myself, said to others and lived through in the past 2 years. It made me know for sure, that I was on the right path, that I wasn't crazy, that what I was actually feeling was "normal", as normal as I can be while going through this. Please, please please, anyone who has lost a child or knows someone who has, order it for you or for that someone. They will be extremely grateful and you might just keep someone from going off the edge.
Thank you ladies for sharing your intimate stories about your angels, I felt your words right down to my very soul. I cannot thank you enough for putting your feelings into this book. I am forever grateful.

A Book that Really Tells it Like it is.
Helpful Votes: 3 out of 3 total.
Review Date: 2008-08-08
I thought this book was excellent and so helpful - as anything can be at a time like this...it is comforting to know that others share in this horrible journey of grief and you are not alone in your feelings. The writer/writers have all been there and will be for the rest of their lives. I cried my eyes out but found the book cathartic. I have read a few others but none have touched me as deeply as this book. God help us all who have lost a child - what a horrendous loss it is.

Recomend
Helpful Votes: 3 out of 3 total.
Review Date: 2008-08-03
Wondered if a book written by grieving mothers would speak to men. I was sure wrong. Very honest talk of thier feelings and varied coping adjustments. I saw myself in many of their stories of how they feel and how they keep on keeping on. The last chapter where the husbands talk of thier feelings only helped solidify my liking this book.

Must read after the loss of a child
Helpful Votes: 3 out of 3 total.
Review Date: 2008-04-15
My 25 year old son was killed in a motorcycle accident almost three years ago. There's no way to understand the shock and pain a parent feels with this type of loss, unless you've experienced it. Our daughter bought "Beyond Tears" for me, I could only read one or two pages at a time because these dear women were describing my pain - I was reading what I was feeling. It helped me to understand and know that I wasn't losing my mind or going crazy. I continued reading books (22 at the last count) but, Beyond Tears was by far the most helpful. I've recommended it to those who sadly have found themselves dealing with the death of a teen or adult child.

Child-Development
Connection Parenting: Parenting Through Connection Instead of Coercion, Through Love Instead of Fear
Published in Paperback by Wyatt-MacKenzie Publishing (2005-11-01)
Author: Pam Leo
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Amazing Resource
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Review Date: 2008-12-03
Pam Leo is amazing. I had the privilege of attending her teleclass through [...], based on this book, and it was wonderful. I'm a better mother and my relationship with my kids is better because of the work Pam Leo is doing.

Completely Changed Our Relationship
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Review Date: 2008-11-24
I have two daughters; the elder is 3 and a half and the baby is 10 months old. After the birth of my second daughter, I started to notice more "attention-seeking" behavior from my older daughter. A friend recommended Pam's book, and actually got me enrolled in a teleseminar with Pam Leo through [...]

I was amazed, as I put the principles into practice, the immediate and LASTING changes that my daughter and I both experienced. As I learned new ways to relate to what she was feeling, she learned to trust me more. And as I learned more of the reasons behind some of her behaviors, I learned to trust her more.

Before reading this book, I probably spent about 75% of my time with my daughter yelling. I work 40 hours a week, so we don't get to see each other all day every day, either. The time we have together is so precious to me, but I was completely yelling it away, because of my own frustration at her lack of cooperation. I have learned new ways to respond, new ways to head off a lack of cooperation before it even starts. Now, my daughter looks for ways to help me before I even ask.

I recommend this book to every parent. It should be required reading before you have kids :)

Great concept
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Review Date: 2008-11-13
Looking at parenting throught the eyes of a child makes one stop and think of the child as a feeling human being rather than just a child. The recommendations were genuinely heartfelt.

Great book!
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Review Date: 2008-08-31
Every parent should read this! Even though a lot of it is basic info, it is really thought provoking!

Great book to use with any age of kids
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Review Date: 2008-06-25
Pam Leo has touched on a subject that is most important this day and age- connection. As you rewind, repair and replay your communication with your child, you are taking the steps to a better connection now and for the future. Pam's extensive research, presented in this book, gives you great idea's, activities and pertinent facts in working through any situation that may arise between you and your child. Connection Parenting is also a great tool in dealing with discipline in your home. Becoming aware of you and your child's communication styles and rethinking your approach can reconnect and build self esteem and worth. I wish I would have had this book when my kids were younger!!

Child-Development
Just Tell Me What to Say: Sensible Tips and Scripts for Perplexed Parents
Published in Paperback by Collins Living (2008-03-01)
Author: Betsy Brown Braun
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Linda Gilman
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Review Date: 2008-11-02
I started reading this book but it wasn't what I needed so I stopped reading it after a couple pages. It might be OK if you needed advise on how to answer questions about death and etc, but I had already gone thru that time with my kids/grandkids.

Must Have 4 Every Parent
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Review Date: 2008-10-20
Not even fully finished with the book and already must give it 5 stars. My husband and I love the easy to read format. We have a 17 year old from his first marriage and a new baby on the way. This book has helped us in so many ways. We baby sat a almost 4 year old boy the other day and this book came IN HANDY. With in minutes we had him listening to us and walking with us in the store. Much better then he does with his mother (he runs away all the time). We are also reading "Scream Free Parenting". I want to give both books to every parent. I say it's a must buy!

The Most Pertinent Book You Will Find for your Family's Everyday Life
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Review Date: 2008-05-10
Of all the many books I have read about child rearing, this book is by far the best and most useful book for dealing with your everyday (and not so everyday) problems. Betsy's words are relatable, concise and her approach makes complete sense. Her advice is presented in a readable (often very funny) manner that translates very easily to the real world. From nose picking and back talk to table manners, sex and death, this book covers it all. Besty's words are absolutely invaluable. Buy this book and refer to it often. You will not be sorry!

Go with your own instincts
Helpful Votes: 1 out of 1 total.
Review Date: 2008-08-02
Some of the suggestions in this book are okay, but some are a bit far fetched. Go with your instincts. Truth is...you know your children and what works best with them. This, to me, is another person's opinion and should be taken that way.

MUST HAVE FOR ALL PARENTS
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Review Date: 2008-04-21
The best book I've found so far! Practical ideas for all parents. I've implemented a lot of the tips and it works wonders!!!!!

Child-Development
Positive Pushing: How to Raise a Successful and Happy Child
Published in Hardcover by Hyperion (2002-04-10)
Author: James Taylor
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A brilliant guidng force in our confused, high-pressure times
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Review Date: 2006-09-23
Positive Pushing speaks to our times and the difficulties parents face when determining how much or how little to push their children to achieve success in life. We all want to motivate our kids to succeed in life, but how much is too much? When do we push and when do we back off? Dr. Taylor, through examples, research, and his own personal wisdom, walks this delicate line, showing the pitfalls and dangers of both sides, and leads us to creating a healthy, balanced and purposeful life for our young ones. In the highly competitive world we live in today, no home with children should be without this important work on their bookshelf.

Positive Pushing is just that!
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Review Date: 2006-07-26
If you're living vicariously through the life of your child- step out of the way. In his book Positive Pushing, Dr. Jim Taylor teaches parents to step back and examine the root of their attitudes towards their child's successes and failures and provides a win-win model for positive encouragement. He teaches parents to equip their children with an internal compass to which they can gauge their own successes and failures, while always keeping focused on giving their personal best.

Trying too hard
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Review Date: 2006-04-23
Jim Taylor is pushing too hard in trying to resolve various parenting and parenting/adult issues in one book. He probable knows a lot about achievement but he couldn't convince me about how positive pushing/control can be with kids--he starts with a promising argument but feters out in his style of discussion. He cites good research but his own ideas/interpretations are unoriginal and unconvincing. He is also inconsistent in his opinions (i.e., unconditional love does not exist then in next sentence he says that parents are to love their kids without condition). He also talks about achieving "balance" without real-life solutions. He does have lists of behavioral solutions in the end of the chapters but they seem disjointed and almost exhaustive, making me feel more like my kids and I would be more exhausted than "balanced". The tone of his book was bland and too distancing--I found myself skimming his chapter intros. He sounds more like a motivational speaker or academician than an experienced parent (he cites kids/families he's worked with but no personal stories about his own family). For a more "balanced" approach in parenting and easier read, I recommend "Hold on to Your Kids" by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Mate.

A resource for young achievers, parents, and educators...
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Review Date: 2006-03-03
When it comes to literature on young achievers, Dr. Taylor's book stands out from the pack. Positive Pushing brings to light the oftentimes overlooked and misunderstood world of emotions, family dynamics, and external & internal expectations that young achievers face during their school years and beyond.

Taylor cuts to the chase when it comes to examining achievement and happiness, making the necessary distinction between external achievement and achievement that includes the internal experience of joy in the process. In so doing, Taylor details the type of guidance and support he encourages parents to provide in order to ensure their children experience success and happiness simultaneously.

Taylor pulls no punches as he cautions parents to examine their own motives, desires, and expectations. At the same time, he skillfully guides parents on how to navigate the terrain of ensuring their children grow into happy, resilient, confident, and successful adults. Taylor draws from his extensive professional experience as well as from current research in the fields of child development, sports psychology, and other disciplines. He provides examples in the areas of academics, sports, and the arts that every parent will quickly recognize as true-to-life. He even details red flags, along with accompanying advice on ways to respond to them.

Positive Pushing is a resource as practical as it is thought-provoking. It is a must-read for all interested in ensuring that our children are truly happy in their success.

This book changed the way I parent!
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Review Date: 2005-11-17
Dr. Jim Taylor does a fabulous job clarifying a parent's role in his book, "Positive Pushing". He gives you a framework to guide decisions about children's activities, schedules and responsiblities. I don't feel the panic to join everything or the guilt about not letting them quit piano lessons. He taught me what is negotiable with my three boys and what isn't. I am more of an in-charge parent. We have a new house rule: "one sport, one music...no more, no less". It has worked beautifully for 3 years now. Everyone is trying new things but they are not overwhelmed because they are trying too many new things and they are not bored because they aren't trying anything new.

Dr. Taylor taught me to own my part of parenting and to let my boys own their part. They are proud of the "excellence" they achieve by always working as hard as they can. The word "perfect" has been removed from our vocabulary. Once you open your eyes to how imperfect everything is...you'll never put that pressure on yourself or children again. Dr. Taylor brought joy back to my parenting and, I hope, to my children's childhood again.

Every parent owes it to themselves to read this book! Thanks Dr. Taylor!

Child-Development
Teeth Are Not for Biting (Board Book) (Best Behavior Series)
Published in Board book by Free Spirit Publishing (2003-05)
Author: Elizabeth Verdick
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Coincidence?
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Review Date: 2008-10-24
My daughter is 2 years old and had a problem with biting other children while at daycare. We tried "reasoning" with her - but it didn't seem to help. So, we decided to try buying a book hoping that perhaps it might help the situation. She loves this book. Surprisingly, after reading the book to her, she has not had any reported problems of biting anymore. Coincidence? Perhaps. Perhaps not. This book sure is worth trying it for yourself.

Teeth Are Not for Biting
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Review Date: 2008-07-10
Teeth Are Not for Biting (Best Behavior Series)

This is a great book to read to toddlers to teach acceptable and unacceptable behavior. It has colorful pictures and using simple words easy to understand. This book also offers tips and advice at the end for parents and caregivers.

Great book for a toddler!
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Review Date: 2008-06-06
I wish I would have seen this book four months ago when my now 17 month old toddler was in his biting prime. Nevertheless, I still purchased it (his biting had already significantly decreased) and I'm very happy I did. Once in a while his biting will "resurface" and home we go after day care to take a look at his "Teeth Are Not For Biting" book. The words are very simple and catchy, the illustrations are perfectly colorful for a toddler (white and bright teeth being the focus) and he actually gets the hint that "teeth are not for biting"! I highly recommend this book to any parent of a baby/toddler. Good to have, especially before the problem begins.

Future Children's Librarian bears her "Teeth"
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Review Date: 2008-03-11
The best behavior series is tackling children's less than desirable behaviors one by one;preventing kicking, hitting, the sharing of germs, tail pulling, and now, biting. The text highlights the benefits of teeth for activities such as chewing and smiling as well as acknowledging situations where children might want to bite and alternatives to biting. A variety of well-drawn illustrations present a variety of children in multiple environments. The text does not follow a predictable pattern-while some phrases are used repeatedly, the pattern changes a few times over the course of the text, from "Teeth are not for biting" to "Biting hurts" and back again, which may be confusing for the 0-3 year old audience. Parents may appreciate the resources for discouraging biting and assistance with teething available at the end of the book.

Cute book, message works!
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Review Date: 2008-01-02
My son had a real problem w/ biting, but after reading this book over and over, I really saw a reduction. It's a cute book, great pictures. Def would buy it!

Child-Development
Between Two Worlds: The Inner Lives of Children of Divorce
Published in Hardcover by Crown (2005-09-27)
Author: Elizabeth Marquardt
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PARENTS: a fascinating read if you're not divorced, devastating if you are!
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Review Date: 2008-11-14
I HIGHLY, HIGHLY, HIGHLY recommend this book for parents and parents-to-be who are still married! Those who will benefit range from parents who want to strengthen an already strong marriage to those who are considering divorce. If you are already divorced or at the irreconcilable stage, you'll want to do a serious gut check before you read this because there is no ambiguity in this book. Personally, I wouldn't want to read this if I were a divorced parent.

Based on Marquardt's compelling and extensive research, divorce is damaging to children, whether it is a "good" or a "bad" divorce. She states, "...as much as I believe we should support and understand the needs of divorced and single parents, I feel even more strongly that we should not let our concern for them prevent us from looking unflinchingly at the experience of children of divorce." This book is unflinchingly, brutally honest about the negative effects of divorce on children.

The book addresses "What Marriage Does for Children" as well as many issues that children of divorced parents face. I grew up in an intact home, and I was shocked at some of the things children of divorce have to deal with, most of which you would never even imagine. Children of divorce will probably recognize themselves and their experiences, and perhaps feel a kinship with the study participants that might be beneficial. This book would help pastors, teachers, and anyone else who works with children, too, to understand what children of divorce face. This book is so fascinating and compelling, I cannot do it justice without writing an insanely long review, but at $7.99, it is a bargain that you'll enjoy far more than my review! I actually borrowed the book, but every time I try to return it to its rightful owner, I start reading it again! I am getting my own copy.

Read this BEFORE you divorce!
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Review Date: 2008-09-23
Another book that is often read after the fact. This book should be required reading in premarital counseling, marriage counseling when children are involved and certainly before two parents make the final decision to divorce. The book has many valid points that are not unobvious but are probably not considered in depth by parents who are about to uproot their children's world. I have read a few books on the subject and I myself am a `child of divorce'. Although these books have valuable information in them I believe they enable a `child of divorce' to blame many of their problems on this fact. I think most if not all children face some kind of hardship and quite honestly, if the only hardship you face is a `good divorce' I think you are still a very fortunate individual. Compare it to poverty, debilitating illness of a parent, death of a parent, addiction (child or parent) violence, sexual abuse, etc. and you are still ahead. Research shows that children of divorce are not any more likely to have a lasting marriage then their parents. This says to me that their parent's divorce did not negatively impact them enough to change the path for their own children.
Obviously, an intact healthy marriage is the ideal way for a child to grow up and I do not condone divorce, but we don't live in a perfect or even ideal world. This book and others I have read on the subject leave little hope for a `child of divorce' to get past this and create an enabling attitude. They state you will be forever affected by your parents' choice. Affected-yeah, but immobilized-no! No one gets to pick their parents and I am sure there are countless numbers of children who would trade places with `children of divorce' and would wind up much better off. If parents contemplating divorce read this book first it would be up them to decide if this is something they `need' to put their children through. It should certainly be avoided if possible but avoidable or not, once a child grows up they have a responsibility to themselves, their spouse and their children to deal with past hurts, disappointments and devastations. Call it callous but at what point do you just say `get over it'? You can't change it. You can only control your future and that of your children.

What the heck are we doing to our children?
Helpful Votes: 10 out of 10 total.
Review Date: 2007-04-29
In "Between Two Worlds" Marquardt, explores the consequences of divorce for children. Marquardt herself was the child of divorce, and it left her caught between two houses and feeling safe nowhere.

The statistics show the changes over the last 50 years. A huge increase in divorce and single parenthood is matched by a huge increase in drug abuse, sexual abuse, school difficulties, and emotional problems for our children.

And yet for 50 years, there have been cheery idiot articles and books about how to manage a "good" divorce. But as Marquardt shows, there are no good divorces for children.

Worse, there doesn't seem to be any easy way to repair the damage. Remarriage, statistically,is tied to an even higher number of problems than mere divorce. It does not replace the first marriage. A raft of grim statistics show just how badly most children fare in blended families. Very few ever feel attached to the new parent, very few ever do well in school again, very few go on to lead happy lives. And the statistics on those who are sexually and emotionally abused in blended families is incredible.

We have harmed our children and therefore we have harmed the future.

The damning legacy of divorce
Helpful Votes: 15 out of 15 total.
Review Date: 2007-04-19
Since the 1960s, the Western world has embarked upon a novel and large scale social experiment: the demolition of marriage and the elevation of divorce. Never before in the West have so many marriages ended in divorce, and so many children been forced to endure the horrors of parental separation.

This seismic shift in marriage is as new as it is far-reaching. And because it is so recent, it has only been in the past few years that an entire generation of kids who have lived through divorce have grown up and are able to give their version of events.

And that story is uniformly damning: divorce hurts children, and it hurts them deeply and in a myriad of ways. And that hurt continues throughout adult life. Another clear message coming from the these children is that there is no such thing as a "good divorce".

Sure, in some cases divorce is the only option. But in the overwhelming majority of cases, divorce need not have been the option, and children of divorce desperately wished it did not happen. In truth, children of divorce "typically experience painful loses, moral confusion, spiritual suffering, strained or broken relationships, and higher rates of all kinds of social problems". Their world, in other words, is turned upside-down.

Marquardt argues that while divorce is a way for adults to cope with their problems, it is not in the best interests of the child in most cases. Allowing for certain obvious exceptions, most difficult marriages can be remedied if the parents are willing to work at it. Indeed, most marriages that end in divorce - two-thirds of them - are low-conflict. Children do not benefit from parental divorce. Indeed, "the best possible outcome for children is to live in one home with their mother and father".

And Marquardt has double reason to make these claims. One, she is herself the child of a divorce. And two, she has based her conclusions on a pioneering study of 1,500 young adults from both intact and divorced families. The study, conducted by her and sociologist Norval Glenn, have simply verified what most people know by common sense: divorce has numerous negative consequences for children, and many of those consequences stay with them for the rest of their lives.

This book examines in detail these findings. The actual facts and figures are there, but so too are numerous personal testimonies of those involved in the study. They put a human face on to the statistical data. And the face seen is a sad one indeed. Divorce impacts children profoundly, and the stories told here are tragic and moving.

The three year study made many disturbing discoveries. Meaty chapters explore the various negative outcomes for children of divorce. Consider just one area: the divided self of the child of divorce. The child is ripped out of a cohesive and unified environment (even where conflict takes place) and "suddenly inherits two distinct worlds in which to grow up".

Says Marquardt, every marriage experiences conflict, but there is an underlying cohesion and solidarity to the marriage which is radically destroyed by divorce. In marriage two individuals "become one flesh," but in divorce the parents are separated and become two people again. And the child - quite unprepared - is forced to deal with this new reality.

Adds Marquardt, "after a divorce the task that once belonged to the parents - to make sense of their different worlds - becomes the child's. The grown-ups can no longer manage the challenge, so the child is asked to try." But that is an adult responsibility which young children just cannot carry, a burden they cannot - and should not - bear.

As a result, children of divorce are much more likely than children of intact families to experience "confusion, isolation, and suffering". They are forced to become little adults. Their childhood is ripped away from them, and they are forced to grow up way too soon.

In an intact family, the children are the centre, the nucleus, and the parents work to protect them and nurture them. But after divorce, the two parents themselves become the centre, and children are left to fend for themselves.

In effect, adults start acting like children while the child is forced to act like an adult. That is an intolerable weight for any child to have to carry. And on it goes for the child of divorce. One painful chapter after another highlights the tremendous pressures and strains foisted upon the child of divorce, and the long-term wounds they cause.

Marquardt makes it clear that not every divorce is bad, and that she is not trying to argue that divorced parents are bad people. But she does insist that divorce is primarily about adults and their needs, and almost never about children and their needs. Very few have asked how divorce impacts the children involved.

This book makes it quite clear that children are overwhelmingly losers in divorce. There is very little good at all that children receive from parental divorce. The radical restructuring of a child's world after divorce should be our main consideration. But in most cases it is not.

Our world has been transformed from being a marriage-culture to a divorce-culture. Perhaps it is time that we became a child-friendly-culture. As Marquardt says, "we need to make sweeping changes to our thinking about marriage". And this book is a great place to begin with such a rethink.

Very Well-Written
Helpful Votes: 4 out of 4 total.
Review Date: 2008-07-17
I never really realized how much my parents' divorce bothered me until I read this book. That is not to say that this book convinced me of something that wasn't true; rather, I couldn't put my finger on what had happened to me until I read this book. I didn't become pregnant at 16 or drop out of school; in fact, I am a "successful" adult by the book's standards. However, I had no idea how to make a relationship work, and I trusted no one. Just knowing why really helped me in my current relationship!

Child-Development
Momfidence!: An Oreo Never Killed Anybody and Other Secrets of Happier Parenting
Published in Paperback by Three Rivers Press (2006-09-05)
Author: Paula Spencer
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Take a deep breath, and read it!
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Review Date: 2008-11-19
Let me start by saying...no, I don't think Oreos are healthy. I will likely attempt to feed my child "edamame" when she's old enough. And yes, I think faucet covers are a nice safety precaution.

My husband gave me this book while we were expecting our now 11-month-old. I read this book when our daughter was about 2 months old. I was being crushed by the new mommy guilt...Is all my time with her "quality time"? Will that bottle of formula scar her for life? I want some time for myself...am I a bad mommy? These were among many worries floating around my sleep-deprived head.

As I was reading this book, I felt the tension melt away. I'm not a bad mommy! RELAX! The narratives are hilarious and light-hearted. What a relaxing read! I will likely re-read this as my child(ren) get older. I believe the point of this book is to tell modern mommies to relax a little and pick your battles. Don't get stressed about every little thing because you'll miss the fun of watching your babies grow up!

What a great book for a new, stressed, guilt-ridden mommy!

Really great book!
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Review Date: 2008-08-15
I have several of the books listed above as "Customers who bought this book also bought..." and so far, as I make my way through the stack, I have found Paula's book to be the best. Funny, realistic, with just enough self-deprecating humor to make you really want to be her friend. And I say this because the sad thing is that of all the moms I know, I couldn't recommend this to any of them because no one ever admits to having these feelings of inadequacy. Another more academic but also thoughtful look at this topic is a book called "The Mask of Motherhood". I am so glad that Paula Spencer took the time to write about this, since we so rarely talk about it.

Thanks! I needed that!
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Review Date: 2007-10-22
I had just purchased a slew of parenting books from Amazon but happened to read this one first. At first it seemed that I should have read it last but it gave some great perspective with which to tackle the remaining titles. Cut yourself some slack, don't get caught up and take what works for you and throw the rest out with the trash! And don't forget to ENJOY the journey.

Enjoyable read
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Review Date: 2008-05-14
Momfidence was an enjoyable read if you agree with Paula's child rearing theories -- which I do. But, I can imagine that people who don't agree, like the one's that Paula calls "Mompetition" would find it either offensive or that Paula is just a really slacker mom.

I agree with Paula's thoughts that parenting should be fun and we need to just chill out and not be so uptight about things. (If you saw my living room, you would know that I agree with that!) But, at the very beginning of the book, Paula states that being a parent is not hard. I do disagree with that. I do sweat, I do get exhausted, I do get bruises -- sometimes being a mom is very, very hard!

But, the stories were pretty funny. And it made me feel like I was a pretty good mom, because Paula represents herself as such a slacker mom, that I'm thinking, "Hey, compared to her, I rule!"

It's an enjoyable book that doesn't take many brain cells to read -- which is what I need at the end of the day!

Best parenting book I've ever read.
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Review Date: 2007-10-24
I too was one of those first time Mom's that had every book, every magazine and every website bookmarked on how to be the best parent. I counted the books once, 28! I had 28 books on how to be a better Mom.

I wish I had found Momfidence a long time ago. In the day and age of information at our finger tips, I do believe too much information can hurt. I wonder how much I missed because I was too wrapped up in what the other Mom's were doing or reading about the next hot parenting tip.

I threw the 28 books away and trusted my gut. God gave us instinct for a reason. We need to listen to it. Give your child structure, give them discipline, be consistent and they will feel safe and loved.

Girlfriends that are now pregnant with thier first child ask me, "What's the hardest part of being a parent?" Consistency. Be as consitent as you can. Sit back, relax, eat a cookie and enjoy the parenting ride. They'll be in college before we know it.

Child-Development
Find the Constellations
Published in Hardcover by Houghton Mifflin (1976-04-14)
Author: H. A. Rey
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Great Constellation Primer!
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Review Date: 2008-05-25
Find the Constellations is an absolutely joy to read and study. Rey totally gives modern folk, young and old, a challenge in his opening comments: "Simple shepherds 5000 years ago were familiar with the heavens; they knew the stars and constellations--and they could not read or write---so why don't you?" (Page 3) I agree, and I wonder if we have lost something--as a species, for all our technology, in not observing and questioning the night sky.

This book would be an appropriate product for family time and weekend time--sharing and learning together. The illustrations are easy to grasp, and the fonts are big, easily read even for eye glass wearers. Two chatty little characters appear on select pages to add humor, additional information, and / or emphasis to given material.

My favorite sections in the book:

Star Magnitudes & Examples
Orion & His Stars
Light-Years, Explanation & Examples
Constellation Quizzes
Seasonal Sky Views
Polaris, the North Star
Andromeda
Planet Finder for 2006-2016

NOTE: This book makes a great companion to H.A. Rey's "The Stars: A New Way to See Them."

**People who want more "hardcore" science and meatier cosmology will not be satisfied with this simple book. Not surprising: The target audience of Find the Constellations is for children, young people, and new casual star gazers. :)

great for kids and adults
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Review Date: 2008-01-02
We bought this book for our three girls, along with a telescope. The book is well written. Great for the whole family. Can't say enough good things about it!

Great for young and the not-so young!
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Review Date: 2007-10-17
My husband has a love for the constellations so I decided to purchase this book for him for Father's day; he just loves it and so do the girls. We went camping over the summer and this was a great book to use when we were star gazing; the illustrations are just wonderful. This is a great book for anyone that wants to learn about the constellations.

I love this book!
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Review Date: 2007-09-07
I bought this book a few weeks ago to use for school. I wanted the kids to learn what some of the constellations looked like and how they looked in different parts of the world. I got so much more! I learned about how the stars "moved" relative to the earth and seasons, I learned how to pick our constellations relative to others I already new, and I learned how these stars got their names. I would definitely recommend this for anyone from 5 - 55. Very simple, but very informative!

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Review Date: 2007-08-11
An excellent book for children and adults. Interactive. Fun. This books makes star-gazing understandable and easier.

Child-Development
Freeing Your Child from Anxiety: Powerful, Practical Solutions to Overcome Your Child's Fears, Worries, and Phobias
Published in Paperback by Broadway (2004-03-30)
Author: Tamar E. Chansky
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Freeing your child from anxiety.
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Review Date: 2008-10-24
This book took away the helpless feeling I was having dealing wih my daughter's anxiety. It gave me practical strategies to use to help her conquer her worries and anxieties. This book gave us our daughter back.

Tangible help
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Review Date: 2008-10-05
This book break down the root of anxiety and provides real life examples on how to help your children work through their aniexty. The book is organized in a way that the information is easy to read.

Terrific, concise, book.
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Review Date: 2008-09-20
This book has many tangible solutions and specific excercises to try with your child. Very helpful and easy to understand.

Excellent resource
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Review Date: 2008-03-12
This is a great book for parents trying to help an anxious child. It is written in a straightforward way, without a lot of the fluff and extra verbiage that other, similar books include. The author includes realistic-seeming examples and vignettes, but not so many that they overwhelm the content. A very useful resource.

Freeing Your Child From Anxiety
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Review Date: 2007-11-07
this book is very informational and organized well. i like that you can just go to the sections you are interested in. they also have very good techniques for the kids (and adults) to try. highly recommended!


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