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A book that promotes healing and understandingReview Date: 2008-05-17
Not for AdopteesReview Date: 2007-07-09
The "letters" written by the women in the book will seem contrived and form-like in nature after you have read 10 of them. I understand that these women are all in the same situation and location therefore the letters might seem similar in nature, but honestly, they did not provide any other information or emotional support for me. Perhaps, I am not the audience this book is aimed towards, however, I found it extremely disappointing.
ADOPTION BOOK LIKE NO OTHERReview Date: 2006-04-07
Questions for othersReview Date: 2006-07-16
I would love to read a book that is about mothers who've lost children in other countries twenty years after placement (or so) to talk about their experience and how it affected them for the rest of their life.
Heartfelt but Flawed Review Date: 2006-08-02
All the women who contributed to this collection were at the same maternity home. As one part of their couseling and education they were required to write a letter to the child they were placing for adoption -- [some of] the letters that were chosen for this collection. As another part of their education, they attended religious training. So, many of the letters are quite religious in nature. Most are extremely emotional -- emotional language that may not be typical of every day life nor even of these particular women, since it was part of the "exercise" to explore this in their letter writing.
In looking to read how birth parents feel, I found this book too uniform -- same facility, same training, same counseling per author -- to tell me whether or not this is indicitive of a typical birthmother response, or a typical Korean birthmother response. I'd have loved to hear from birthmothers from other institutions or hospitals, with varying religious beliefs, pre- and post- education, and at different times in the process.
It was clear to me from the introduction that the editors had a large part in conveying the birthmother experience -- the way they chose the letters, the way they organized them, how few letters were chosen from many, how they tell the reader to respond to them, and their own viewpoints plainly stated in ways that were entirely consistent with the material presented. I found the editorial comments at the start nearly too consistent with the material in the book, as it told me just how much the editors' own feelings influenced their choices.
It's unfortunate, because I think this is a stellar idea for a book. But the one thing it lacked was the precise element I sought -- How do birthmothers tend to feel? Not, How do birthmothers at Ae Ran Won who have received certain training and instruction to write their feelings tend to feel, but what is their true experience?

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Thoughts from one blessed w/two through adoptionReview Date: 2004-05-04
This book will have me better prepared to help my kids through their reunions and after. I bought the book to educate myself as to what we may or may not encounter during and after the reunion.
The book is mildy dry in some parts but definitely a worthy read.
Not what I was looking forReview Date: 2002-07-02
Also seemed like a good book for a case where the birthmom was a loving woman who unselfishly gave up her child for adoption, and still thinks of him/her on their birthday, etc.... The book was a little too rosy, though - it didn't seem to recognize that not all birthmoms are so wonderful. I was looking for a gift for my teenage sister who wants to find her birthmom, however, her birthmom was a complete mess. The conclusion chapter said reunions can improve self-esteem because the adoptee finds out that they weren't "dumped". Well my sis WAS dumped, so is it still a good thing for her?
Overall, I think this book would have actually enhanced the fantasies my sister has about her birthmom, so I decided to return it and keep looking.
Pioneering Work Exceeds ExpectationsReview Date: 2005-01-19
Birthbond: Reunions Between Birthparents and AdopteesReview Date: 2002-12-20
Waste of TimeReview Date: 2001-07-21
The book spent the first half going into detail about the circumstances of several adoptions from the get-go. I was expecting a book that mostly addressed the issues facing reunited birthmothers, what to watch out for during the initial contact and the developing relationship with a located adoptee.
Perhaps there is some useful information in the last half of this book, but by the time I got to that part I was so turned off by the writing style that I had shifted into "skim-and-scan" mode just to keep my attention from wandering to more interesting subjects, such as the laundry!

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Great place to startReview Date: 2007-09-28
Spend your money elsewhereReview Date: 2006-12-07
So not what I needed to hear!!!Review Date: 2004-10-27
Loved ItReview Date: 2007-02-07
ExcellentReview Date: 2006-03-01
Of all the books and many, many websites my husband and I have read since we began looking into adoption, "Adopting After Infertility" ranks near, if not at, the top of my list. The best part about this book is how sympathetic Johnston is to [prospective] adoptive parents. I've gone back to this book a few times, after reading more elsewhere and learning more, for her balanced, direct, and kind style. As well as easier on the psyche than others, "Adopting After Infertility" is informative. Not as in depth regarding laws (state by state, country by country) as other sources, there is plenty to get you started in knowing the types of adoption and choices available. Invaluable for making me feel human. An excellent starting point and grounding reference along the way as we encounter the daunting realities. Emotionally, Johnston keeps the reader in line by reminding us that, though we don't have choices or resources we might wish to, we DO have many, which she describes quite well and accurately, providing information unavailble in the "how to" stlye accounts or in the "pro" or "con" material. Johnston is soft and kind, and empowering at once. If you are considering adoption, whether or not you are infertile, I highly recommend this book.

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You have to be kidding meReview Date: 2008-09-25
The story tries to pass itself off as a semi sci-fi examination of the positives and negatives of humanity and its morals, all through a teenage boy who is learning that there is something off about his adoption.
I don't know. Maybe I'm just too cynical to appreciate these kinds of things, but if it can't give me good characters and a decent plot, the message doesn't matter all that much.
Great story but one big annoyanceReview Date: 2007-07-28
Will Thomas Find Out????Review Date: 2005-11-22
This book is about a boy named "Thomas Wisdom." His family is soooooo perfect compared to everyone else. He has this weirdo for a friend named "Gip Sanchez." He is one of those people you would call a poor geek in your school. Gip has a lot of suspicion about Thomas's family. Gip snuck into Thomas's dad's computer and found a document with a whole lot of funny numbers on it. They decoded it and found out that it was an adoption document for a kid named "Michael Garnahm." That turns out to be Thomas's real identity. He was adopted by the Wisdom's. Mr. and Mrs. Wisdom tried to explain to Thomas about the adoption, but Thomas just wouldn't listen. He was so frustrated with them. Thomas asked Gip to help him find his real mother. Thomas eventually finds his mother after a while. A man named CY (Mr. and Mrs. Wisdom's boss) came over and asked Thomas if he wanted to go with him for a little while. Later that day at the plant Thomas found out about these things called "Angels." He also found out about this secrete plan to save the world and mankind. You will have to read the book to find out what happens at the end of the book.
I really liked this book. I don't like to read that much, but this book takes off pretty quick though. When I read books, if it doesn't get interesting pretty quick then I get bored pretty easily.
I would recommend this book to people who do not read a whole eternally lot. I thought it was quite interesting. If I am describing you then this would be a great book to read. You can also read this book if you do like to read books that are in the future a little bit.
The Angel FactoryReview Date: 2005-03-16
People who like mysteries would like to read this book because the mystery never ends. I think that the angels lived on little disks was interesting.
The Angel FactoryReview Date: 2005-05-02
Terence Blacker keeps people on their toes throughout this entire book, and he never gets his readers get bored. I would recommend this book to young adults who like to read books that will keep them interested to the very end of the book. The surprise ending will make the book worth reading.

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Beyond Good IntentionsReview Date: 2007-08-29
Straight into the heart of the white parent experienceReview Date: 2007-04-06
After she finished reading my friend reported it to be one of the best glimpses yet into the mind of a white woman.
Her comment caught me by surprise. My friend and I are both women of color and we have kids who are transracially adopted.
Her children are black and two of my kids are Asian, and we're both rooted deeply in our ethnic communities.
Admittedly when I first read Beyond Good Intentions the fact that it was written for a white audience went over my head.
I only picked up on the fact that these were 10 important issues adoptive parents of Asian children typically struggled with.
While I liked the book, I felt that while it addressed
issues of race, it gave parents permission to be intellectually aware, but didn't consider how to live as a mixed race family
and loose the idea of continuing to live as white, as white parents raising children of color. Yet after re-reading the book I give it rave reviews.
The concept of adoptive parents creating a toolbox to fix themselves (instead of fixing their children) has only just begun
and Cheri Register's "Beyond Good Intentions" is an excellent beginning.
YuckReview Date: 2007-08-16
The first thing that disappointed me was the physical size of the book. They call it a coffee table book not because it should be stored on the coffee table (because personally, I'm not in the habit of inviting people over and saying, "here's a cup of tea, and feel free to browse this book. I think you'll find the section on 'Judging our country superior' to be particuarly enlightening.") but because it's just simply too small to be a regular book. It's about 2/3 the size of a normal hardcover book, and only has 180 pages. My first thought was "this doesn't give you much room to really explore any of these ideas," and I was right.
An issue that pervades the whole of the book is that Register has clearly fallen into the trap of "my experience is everyone's experience." She speaks in truly generalized terms (although every once in a while will pay lip service to "things may be different for you") under the assumption that everyone is just like her. As another reviewer said, this book is written for a white person. I'd say the book is written for a white woman of Scandinavian descent living in a small town in the Midwest vastly removed from most cultural resources for her internationally-adopted children and a place where they're probably the only Asians in town. I only point these specifics out because Register refers to them herself a number of times in the book. While this certainly is the case for some people, it's not the case for everyone, yet Register seems to lack that awareness.
Each chapter does open with an extreme example, but the extremism doesn't necessarily stop there. For example, on page 35 she says:
"As I walk through my gentrifying neighborhood, I often meet younger adoptive parents beaming over cute little kids tucked into padded and shaded state-of-the-art strollers. I smile back knowingly, but don't dare say what I'm thinking: Don't be surprised if your daughter shoplifts, or slips into a deep depression, or flies into a rage and threatens you with a knife before falling into a sobbing heap on the floor. Don't be surprised if your son fires obscenities at you, or skips his classes senior year and barely graduates, or fails to come home several nights in a row and then blames his absence on your inhospitality."
Hunh? You mean that my child is destined to become a delinquent simply by virtue of being adopted? Come on.
Once the discussion veered toward colonialism, I got very frustrated and disgusted. 20th century colonialism is not responsible for international adoption--or I should say that 20th century colonialism is not responsible for abandoned orphans who lack homes. I will be the first to decry the evils of colonialism, believe me, but white Europeans did not invent the idea. Occupation and colonization has been going on for centuries. It is not the fault of white Europeans that China, for example, values boys over girls.
Overall I found this book very short on insight but very frustrating and rather depressing. If you want a book that makes you feel like nothing you do is right, then this is a good one for you. If you want a book that truly explores these issues from an adoptee's point of view, look elsewhere.
double yuckReview Date: 2007-09-03
"As I walk through my gentrifying neighborhood, I often meet younger adoptive parents beaming over cute little kids tucked into padded and shaded state-of-the-art strollers. I smile back knowingly, but don't dare say what I'm thinking: Don't be surprised if your daughter shoplifts, or slips into a deep depression, or flies into a rage and threatens you with a knife before falling into a sobbing heap on the floor. Don't be surprised if your son fires obscenities at you, or skips his classes senior year and barely graduates, or fails to come home several nights in a row and then blames his absence on your inhospitality."
As a parent I realize how easy it is to fall into a "been there done that" attitude but every situation is different and most of the problems she describes are true for biological children as well as adopted children. Every teenager fights to figure out who there are, no matter what their dna is.
Patronizing and NegativeReview Date: 2007-07-18
International adoption is not 'popular' in any meaningful way (the statics reflect the truly small percentage of international adoptions.) And by articulating this at the outset, how can a prospective adoptive parent not feel slighted? Like European immigrants that rant against current immigration allowances, the Author creates an unhelpful, hypocritical dynamic.
Fianlly, the 10 topics/questions she attempts to flush out in this slim volume are overly general, and unrealistic scenarios for sophisticated, college-educated readers.

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Sweet Book, Nice MessageReview Date: 2008-12-24
somehow made me sadReview Date: 2008-12-05
And my thought is, that the "I don't ....." sections on each page emphasize the child's difference and separateness from the adoptive family, and the juxtaposition seems (to me) to make it seem as though the "but I have ...." sections are supposed to be in compensation. So - I think I would have given this 5 stars if the text had emphasized the shared parts and commonality between child and family, while making the differences obvious in pictures only or else not starting each page with the difference/separateness.
Great adoption bookReview Date: 2008-11-04
It Warms My HeartReview Date: 2008-04-28
I agree with some other reviewers: if you're not a family that prays together, the praying page is a little awkward, but still, nice to illustrate the variety of things families do.
nice text, weird illustrationsReview Date: 2007-09-10
Unfortunately, the illustrations are freakish. I don't know how else to characterize them. My kids were totally turned off by the way people looked in the story. The mom on the first page looks like one of those dolls with the blue eyes that open and close.
On the other hand, I could see that my 10 year old was intrigued by the text. She couldn't stand the illustrations, though.

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Borya and the Burps!Review Date: 2007-08-27
Good for Children and AdultsReview Date: 2007-06-12
My Russian daughter asked if we can keep this foreverReview Date: 2007-03-12
When I'm reading it to her, I change "orphanage" to "Baby Home" about half the time. She tries to sort out which babies are girls and which are boys, insists on counting the cribs and babies each time, and she tells me that the little boy thinks the dad is going to give him a shot, before we get to that part of the story. I don't know how much she remembers of her time in a Russian orphanage, but something is resonating for her.
Another aspect of this that ties into our own story is that I had already told her that the judge in our case was a woman, so this seems to her to be very credible.
Very GoodReview Date: 2006-04-16
Beautiful story from a child's point of viewReview Date: 2006-04-18
But the emotions and issues running throughout the book are definitely not simple ones. The beauty of this book is that it shows adoption from the baby's - Borya's - perspective. His comfort in his simple world and his routine. The smells. The language and the music. Then suddenly, 2 strangers who "talk funny" are are called Mama and Papa enter the picture.
His comfort zone is gone. Things smell different and taste different. He worries about who will feed and change and burp him.
Frankly, I think this book should be required reading for anyone planning to adopt a child from Eastern Europe. I know that I wish I had read it before we traveled to Azerbaijan to adopt our son. All of the emotions Borya experiences were the same for our son.
Adoptive parents must be careful not to allow their joy to overshadow the fear and uncertainty that is going through the mind of the child. This book helped me see things from my son's perspective - albeit 3 years late!
I highly recommend it to any family formed in Eastern Europe. The story will "grow" as your child grows. He will find news things in it and ask different questions. But it is a very good book!

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UH OHReview Date: 2005-07-11
Save Thoroughbred!Review Date: 2005-02-17
good, a little far-fetchedReview Date: 2005-01-18
this book is the best so farReview Date: 2001-11-22
The last of the classic Campbell Thoroughbred booksReview Date: 2003-03-25
Cindy's Glory is the story of Cindy Blake, an orphan who is staying temporarily at Whitebrook Farm with Ian and Beth MacLean, and their daughter Samantha. In the previous book, Cindy's Runaway Colt, Cindy found a stray colt named Glory and hid him while she tried to convince the MacLeans to save him from his abusive owners - who, it turned out, had stolen him. Now he is up for auction, so Cindy and her friend Heather Gilbert determine to train him as a racehorse to prove he's good enough for Whitebrook to buy.
Campbell is notorious for having her heroines - Ashleigh, the original character who started the series, and then Samantha - go off slightly half-cocked when it comes to horses. You really have to ignore the fact that two twelve-year-old girls are galloping a racehorse; if you do you'll be able to handle the whole book. Don't get hung up on the fact that it's totally unreasonable; this is one example of the way Campbell was definitely on the way out when she wrote this book.
Otherwise Campbell does a good job. Cindy's fear at being taken away from her foster home at Whitebrook is very real, as is her gratitude at being part of a loving family. And her relationship with Glory is much like Ashleigh's with her beloved mare Wonder, but not a carbon copy. Longtime readers will manage to find parallels and enjoy the bond between them, but it won't feel like Campbell ran out of things to say and just cut-and-pasted Ashleigh and Wonder stories.
Joanna Campbell wrote Thoroughbred books #1-14, the super editiongs Ashleigh's Christmas Miracle and Ashleigh's Diary, and the first three books of the Ashleigh series: Lightning's Last Hope, A Horse for Christmas, and Waiting for Stardust. She also wrote Battlecry Forever! and Star of Shadowbrook Farm, which were released as part of the "Ashleigh's Book Collection" series. If you plan to read Thoroughbred I recommend you start with #1 and go up, because the original 14 books really were the best.

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Analysis of Corporate CreativityReview Date: 2005-05-05
There is one particular aspect of the book that could use improvement. I thought it would be better for Robinson and Stern to weave a few narratives throughout all six of their steps. Instead, they jump around between numerous stories that fit any single step. This leaves the reader puzzled as to how the authors steps can be applied to their organization. Seemingly cookie cutter examples that fit perfectly within the parameters of what Robinson and Stern are trying to describe are all the reader gets. The stories are good and entertaining, yet there is no explanation as to how these examples can be digested by the reader and used in their own corporations.
This is a good starting point for anyone that is intersted in corporate creativity. By focusing on examples and not implementation, the authors have not provided clear means for the utilization for their ideas. Examples that have worked in other companies are great, but the authors do not provide enough help in linking those past occurences with the problems of the current reader.
Quite entertaining, not meant as a "how to"Review Date: 2002-02-04
A Good Reaf!Review Date: 2001-03-17
The first five chapters provide an overview of creativity, outlining the six essential elements that creativity requires. In the following chapters, the authors detail the six elements, provide several case studies to illustrate their points and show how to achieve each aspect of creativity. This is a useful book for any executive who wants his or her company, and the people in it, to realize their full creative potential. We at getAbstract recommend this book to managers and executives in any industry.
"The Power of the Unexpected"Review Date: 2001-09-05
In this context, in describing the corporate creativity, Alan G. Robinson and Sam Stern write that a company is creative when its employees do something new and potentially useful without being directly shown and taught. And they argue that in every unexpected creative act the following six essential elements are key to promoting consistent corporate creativity:
1. 'Alignment' is the degree to which the interests and actions of every employee support the organization's key goals. Strong alignment requires three things: *clarity about what the key goals of the organization are, *commitment to initiatives that promote the key goals, *accountability for actions that affect the key goals.
2. 'Self-initiated activity.' The majority of creative acts in companies are self-initiated, which explains why they are unanticipated by management. To promote it, companies only have to unleash what is already present. The key is an effective system for responding to employee ideas, which must have five characteristics. The system must: *reach everyone, *be easy to use, *have strong follow-through, *document ideas, *be based on intrinsic motivation.
3. 'Unofficial activity,' work done without direct official support, is what makes it possible for a company to go where it never expected to. Every unexpected creative act begins with a period of unofficial activity, which might be a matter of minutes or years.
4. 'Serendipity' combines a fortunate accident with sagacity. Fortunate accidents can be promoted through strategies that provoke and exploit accidents. Sagacity can be promoted by expanding the company's human potential beyond its immediate needs.
5. 'Diverse stimuli.' A stimulus can either push someone in a completely new direction or give that person fresh insight into what her or she has already set out to do. There are four strategies companies can use to promote diverse stimuli: *identify stimuli and provide them to employees, *rotate employees into every job they are capable of doing, *arrange for employees to interact with those outside the company who are likely to be the source of stimuli, *create opportunities for employees to bring into thr organization stimuli they get on their own.
6. 'Within-company communication.' Every company tries to ensure effective communication between employees who depend on each other to do their work. However, most organizations overlook the importance of unanticipated communication between employees who do not normally work together. And these exchanges of information often lead to unexpected creative acts. There are three ways a company can promote within-company communication: *provide opportunities for employees who do not normally interact with each other to meet, *ensure that every employee has a sufficient understanding of the organization's activities to be able to tap its resources and expertise, *create a new organizational priority: all employees should know the importance of being responsive to requests for information or help from other employees.
Finally, Robinson and Stern write that "If the six elements are implemented in your organization, its overall level of creativity will certainly rise. Use them yourself and you may very well find yourself in the middle of a creative act...Our journey led us to 'discover' the power of the unexpected. Your journey will lead you to 'realize' it."
Highly recommended.
Well written with interesting examplesReview Date: 2001-01-15
While the book does a great job at exploring these concepts and gives excellent examples, what I found lacking was the "how-to" compontent.
As the author of Aha! - 10 Ways To Free Your Creative Spirit and Find Your Great Ideas, I am always looking for good books on the topic I am most passionate about. As far as creativity books, this one takes a unique perspective, the corporate rather than the individual. I applaud their work in this regard. Their examples are well-researched, and from a variety of industries.
If you are looking to dig deep into the field of organizational creativity, this is an excellent addition to your library.

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don't buy this bookReview Date: 2008-04-03
BEST BOOK FOR FAMILY MEMBERSReview Date: 2008-01-18
A little too simpleReview Date: 2008-01-07
Future Mom of a Chinese daughterReview Date: 2007-10-26
Great BookReview Date: 2007-09-27
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