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If you are planning to adopt from China, this is the book for you!Review Date: 2008-06-17
informative read, if slightly repetitiveReview Date: 2008-02-20
I did find however, that the book was slightly repetitive. There seemed to be a lot of "Women are forced to give up their daughters so that they can have sons..." and "Women were forced to abort if they went over the one child rule..." and "Having a son is more important than anything on the planet"...over and over and over. I understood that after the first chapter. But each chapter seemed to repeat this in different words.
I really appreciated the author's personal story. She was honest and real about the anxieties involved in this process, including the huge financial cost of adopting from China. She also made clear the joys of adoption from China. We got an honest look at both sides of the coin.
Overall it was a well written and informative book. I'm glad I bought it used though. :)
Eye Opening!Review Date: 2007-11-25
This book is great information for everyone, not just those interested in international adoption.
I was so nieve before reading this book!Review Date: 2007-08-21
Very Educational!Review Date: 2007-05-16

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Beautiful Story of Forgiveness and loveReview Date: 2008-03-29
this is the best book i have ever read...Review Date: 2008-03-20
heidi bookReview Date: 2007-12-14
A revelationReview Date: 2008-03-24
Heidi is a book that changed my life. It gave me hope as I lie in darkness. It made me taste goats milk even though to this day I never have. I hope to take this book and read it to my 84 year old mother soon so that I may turn the tables. This book is amazing. Buy it. Read it. Share it with your loved ones. I cannot emphasize enough that this story is magic. God Bless all who read this. Jen
Wonderful Children's BookReview Date: 2008-01-30

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A comprehensive & vital foundation Review Date: 2006-05-30
Highly inspirationalReview Date: 2005-10-05
all families are differentReview Date: 2005-09-11
DisappointingReview Date: 2005-06-29
Finally - an adoption book everyone in America should read!Review Date: 2005-07-28
Pat

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Attachmentsw in AdoptionReview Date: 2008-12-21
Outstanding-- again and again and agianReview Date: 2008-10-21
Attaching in Adoption: Practical Tools for Today's Parents Review Date: 2008-08-04
Too ClinicalReview Date: 2008-09-16
Very Helpful and EducationalReview Date: 2008-07-07

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A must read for all involved in adoption!!!Review Date: 2008-02-03
Adoption Means LossReview Date: 2006-04-11
The Voice of AdopteesReview Date: 2008-01-05
Adoption Healing... a path to healing and livingReview Date: 2006-04-11
The Truth Hurts but now there is hope..Review Date: 2006-04-11


Must try it to believe it REALLY WORKSReview Date: 2008-11-25
I have attended 2 different events with Heather, and can say she lives what she writes. That is a big deal to a skeptic like me. I see huge differences in my children when I am able to stay in my regulated state, and am able to love my children unconditionally.. which takes on a new meaning after reading this book. ( and Vol. 2) The science is there to back it up too. Buy it! read it!
As an aside for any Christian's considering reading this, please don't let the idea of no consequences or control scare you off. Look at Jesus' teachings.. He is all about love, we've just been wrapped up in the 'spanking is Biblical' mode for so long we've forgotten what our children need most IS LOVE.. Love never fails.
Help for adopted children that defies all other methods.Review Date: 2008-10-18
We have tried attachment therapies and all other forms of help we could mannage.
Nothing seemed to fit exactly. This book, although very difficult for the parents
really hits the mark!
Afterall, what is good parenting if it does not allow the parent to heal at the same
time as the children!
We give this book and method 2 thumbs up!
Can I give 6 stars? Review Date: 2008-10-14
Every traditional parenting method (time-outs, reward charts, etc) have only made things worse is the past. Up until now we've felt that "no one understands! Nothing works for our son!" I highly recommend this book.
Effective adn PowerfulReview Date: 2008-09-29
Ken Thom, MS, LPC
This book put into words and examples things I had been discovering with my own daughterReview Date: 2008-09-19
I heard Dr. Post speak and then I purchased the book. I knew right away that what they were saying made sense and not many others were saying it. I had done a lot of research and had listened to a lot of friends give advice, but parenting my daughter in those ways was not working and was not getting the same results as they were getting or that I even recall having when my mom and dad raised me!
I keep this book available to re-read and re-read. It is amazing how something so simple can get so difficult as we live out day to day life. I need these reminders! Also, Great examples!
Because I so loved this book I did some research and I also just completed a training with one of the authors Heather Forbes (and Eric Guy) of this model -My husband came with me and we both loved it and have been applying it not only to our relationship and interactions with our daughter but with each other.
Some of these principles in the book have given us instant positive results- I have never heard my daughter speak out the things that are overwhelming her so clearly or so soon, especially when the beginning of the sharing was her yelling at me that I was "so mean" for say, making her turn off a TV show. With other parenting styles I would have sent her instantly to her room or time out with a "don't you use that tone with me young lady" Now the TV still stays off, but we end up talking, yelling slows down and instead of tears and more screaming, I actually end up hearing her heart about topics totally unrelated to the anger expressed about turning off the TV. It is amazing! Other things we are still working on, mostly on applying things that are in areas I now see I have my own issues not yet healed.
I highly recommend this book to anyone, and especially to those whose children have been adopted, have been through some sort of trauma, have attachment issue or very low ability to manage stress and who don't respond to more traditional parenting methods like you would have expected. Actually- to those families the book will be life saving- to any families you will love what it brings into your tool-box!
READ IT! And if you are reading this book and would like another tool in your tool-box, sign up on Heather Forbes' website Beyond Consequences website for free Daily Parenting Tips! I signed up for heather's Parenting emails and was amazed how each day they came so right on target and made me look at myself, not just my child's behaviors. It reinforces what the book teaches in a daily, timely way! **Sorry this post is so long- hopefully you skimmed to get out of it what applied to your life or what you are seeking to know about the book. :- )
Press on! as Heather Forbes would say!

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the waiting child,how the love of one orpan saves anotherReview Date: 2008-07-02
The Waiting ChildReview Date: 2007-03-12
A wonderful story.Review Date: 2006-06-09
My friend, adopted from Korea as a baby, also loved it and now hopes to one day adopt from China as well.
True LoveReview Date: 2006-09-11
This book is amazing!
It is about an American mother who goes to China to adopt a three year old girl. This girl, Jacklyn, has lived in the orphanage for two years where she's taken care of a little boy, Xiao Mei Mei. She's acted like a mother to him and made sure the older boys in the orphanage don't pick on him. When Jacklyn, gets adopted she makes it her mission to get her mom to adopt "her baby". Her mom turns to her own family to help her get this baby adopted. Every night Jackyln asks when her baby is coming to America. "When Xiao Mei Mei come?"
Being adopted from China, I found the book very touching. When I went back to my orphanage this summer I saw a little girl who had been left at the orphanage the night before and I fell in love with her. I, like Mrs. Champnella, know what it is like to feel protective of a child you don't know and love that child with all your heart.
I would recommend this book to people who, like me, aren't too religious but won't mind hearing about it. It certanly didn't put me off the book. I think everyone would love this book because it's about the determination of one little girl to share her new life with the one she loves.
Read it, believe me you will love it!
Mixed...Review Date: 2006-10-05
However, as an adoptee, I would say that I have a problem with the mother in this story sharing her daughter's story so openly. I firmly believe that an adopted child's story is their story and they should be the ones to share it...not their parents'. I understand to a certain degree that as an adoptive parent, your child's adoption is a part of your own story....however, details about the way her birthmother left her child are very private matters. I'm not sure if I would want my history out there for all to read and I don't think that the daughter is of the age where she would be able to fully process what it means to put your story in print. And while the author was extremely honest in this story about her own feelings when she initially met her daughter, I think that there would be a lot of things that would be really difficult to read as her adopted daughter....especially during adolescence.
So...although I think this is defintely worth reading, for me, it left me with mixed feelings.

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A must buy if you want to master viReview Date: 2007-08-19
About the book, it is perhaps the best resource for someone at the beginner/intermediate level to learn about vi. There are not many books around on the subject, but this book does a great job. It is divided into two parts. The first part teaches vi and the second part talks about a few vi clones (including vim). The book (especially the first part) is organized in a very nice way. Things are presented in a certain order. Each chapter/section builds on the previous chapter/section. The second part deals with different clones of vi, like nvi, elvis, vim and vile. Of these, I use only vim, which is basically is superset of vi. The chapter on vim does a good job of discussing the essential features of vim in some details, although its not complete by any means. With vim having such a huge number of features, it demands a separate book for itself.
All in all, this is a great book. It is a worthwhile investment to make. You will end up doing things in minimum time and with just a few keystrokes. As another reviewer has said, vi is addicting. Use it and you will see for yourself!
Still reads like a first editionReview Date: 2007-08-23
I know the authors feel compelled to write a book that describes the features of vi that are common on all platforms, but they end up producing a manual that appeals to the lowest common denominator. If you are still editing files on an old Unix machine using minicom and a dial-up link, this book is just right for you. If you are a modern vi user, trying to edit a large Linux project and need to learn some of the more powerful features of vim, you may be better off asking the office vi guru.
The community at large would be better served by a book dedicated to vim that does not have the problems of "Vi iMproved (VIM)" by Steve Oualline.
A great book about a great text editorReview Date: 2007-06-22
The material is divided in two parts:
* Presentation of the vi proper.
* Presentation of the vi clones.
The value of the book resides in the first part (7 chapters). It explains vi so well that it is hard not to understand and like this well-designed editor.
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Vi is an editor of many qualities: portability, price ($0!) and speed. When it comes to speed, file loading is quick, saving is quick, searching is quick, scrolling is quick - everything is quick with this guy!
Everything but... learning. The vi editor has had a bad reputation as being hard to learn and master. The modal behavior scares most people away and the wide range of commands may seem like hard to conquer. This could have been the situation *before* the amazing "Learning the vi Editor" by Lamb & Robbins existed - but now, when the book reaches the 6th edition, there's no excuse.
As "Learning the vi Editor" nicely explains, vi is a layer on top of the ex editor. Ex is a so-called "line-editor", used to edit files in a line-oriented manner. The two modes of vi are nothing else than an expression of this duality. In the so-called 'edit mode', ex is in control. In the so-called 'command mode', vi-proper is in control while redirecting the ':' commands to the underlying ex. Simple, isn't it?
The book exposes this philosophy behind vi with clarity, rigor and friendliness. Once you read this book you realize that, in fact, vi is a simple and perfectly logical editor. It has simple command sintax, simple command semantics and simple command composition rules.
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All this information - and much more - can be found in the first part of "Learning the vi Editor". The second part is dedicated to various vi clones. Here the reader has the liberty to choose depending on which clone he/she feels most comfortable with.
Books which remove confusion and bring light to seemingly arcane areas are rare. "Learning the vi Editor" by Lamb & Robbins is one of them.
The best book for properly learning the vi editorReview Date: 2007-02-16
If you have learned the wrong way, or if you are a bonified beginner, start at the beginning of part one. Don't skip anything. Even if you think you already know something, at least read through the section to make sure you know the best way of doing it. By the end of the first seven chapters you should be a pretty skilled user of vi. The book makes frequent use of practice exercises, answers common questions, and gives advice on what to do when you encounter common problems. By the time you finish you'll even be writing ex scripts and modifying C/C++ code in the vi editor without accidentally inserting all kinds of control characters that will drive programmers crazy once "the real editor" is back on line.
Part two starts at chapter eight and concerns itself with all of the various extensions to vi that are available via the four most popular vi clones available when this book was published. You do get some enhancements such as multi-window editing and even GUI interfaces by using them, but the cost is an increase in the confusion factor that this book tries to clear up as much as possible. If you are not planning on using a vi clone, you may want to just file this section of the book away in case the subject ever comes up.
Part 3 consists of several useful appendices. Four of the appendices are still useful, but the fifth, on vi and the Internet, is a bit dated. I highly recommend this book if the vi editor is in your future, and if you have system administrator duties, believe me it is. You might also want to invest in the very handy "vi Editor Pocket Reference" by the same author. I have mixed feelings about that one. Everything is there in a concise format, but until you get used to it, information can be hard to find.
Beginner to Advanced, Comprehensive Guide to ReferenceReview Date: 2005-09-29
vi is by no means an easy or intuitive editor, but with a little practice, it can greatly improve your efficiency. The book does a great job of taking you through a logical progression of how to start using the product.
Also, the support for the derivatives of vi is a huge plus. The vim chapter is excellent and I learned several tips and trick that I now use on a daily basis.
As usual, O'Reilly hits another one out of the park.

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A Beautiful book, cute story, great art of Paris. Review Date: 2008-12-28
a true classicReview Date: 2008-12-03
A classic!Review Date: 2008-08-06
Beautiful, memorable bookReview Date: 2008-08-03
A great children's bookReview Date: 2008-06-16
This is a great children's book, one that my four-year-old likes having read to her over and over again. Indeed, we now have it down to where she finishes the sentences for me. "In two straight lines they..." I start, and she finishes with, "broke their bread." Well, it's a lot of fun. We both love this book and highly recommend it!

Fantastic!Review Date: 2008-08-27
File Under M For MisandryReview Date: 2008-04-13
Saffy's Angel is a MasterpieceReview Date: 2007-05-07
The four Casson children are all named after colors on the color chart, thanks to their artist mother, Eve. The oldest is Cadmium (Caddy), then Saffron (Saffy), Indigo, and Rose. One day, Saffy was looking at a color chart and discovered she was not on there, and soon learned she had been adopted. The other children told Saffy, who was severely upset, that her adoption made no matter and she was still part of the family. Saffy was the daughter of Eve's twin sister, who died in a car crash in Italy. Saffy's grandfather brought Saffy to Eve's family in England. After grandpa died, he left something to each of the children. To Saffy, all he left was "her angel." Saffy leaves to go to Italy with her new energetic friend to search for the angel, but comes home fruitless. But then, almost entirely by accident, Indigo figures out the puzzle of Saffy's Angel, and retrieves the angel sculpture for Saffy.
Saffy's Angel was an excellent read with memorable characters, humor, and fresh storytelling.
A few of the unforgettable characters were Saffy, Sarah, and Caddy. Saffy was funny and simply enjoyable. She always said what was on her mind and was stubborn. In Siena, Italy, where Saffy and Sarah went along with Sarah's parents to search for the angel, Saffy checked her mother's old house and garden multiple times before accepting defeat. Sarah was bound to a wheelchair, but she never let that stop her. Perhaps she was even more stubborn than her friend Saffy, but Sarah was certainly more resourceful. Sarah was always thinking of clever ideas to get what she wanted and to overcome numerous obstacles - it was Sarah who figured out to get into the garden at Saffy's old residence in Siena. Caddy was a genius in disguise. She had street smarts and even some book smarts, but was failing out of her college classes and driving tests. She helped her siblings out of tricky situations, such as Rose's stolen painting, and was a compassionate person.
There were many funny things going on in Saffy's Angel. One was Indigo. Indigo desperately wanted to explore Antarctica, but realized that he needed to overcome his fear of heights. Therefore, to compromise that, he would sit on second-story windowsills and just sit. One time, Caddy forgot to help in back inside, so he ended up sitting on the windowsill for hours into the evening. Another funny happening in the story was when baby Rose swallowed a tube of paint and had a yellowish tint to her skin for a few weeks after. Yet another humorous event in this story was Saffy's journey to Siena. Sarah and her parents had been planning on going, but Saffy was not invited along. Sarah and Saffy planned a way to bring Saffy along, so Saffy hid inside a beanbag chair sitting inside the car on the ride. When they were halfway there, Saffy popped out and scared Sarah's parents, who were then forced to bring her along.
There were quite a few examples of originality and fresh storytelling in Saffy's Angel. One was the Casson's house. It was called the banana house, but did not resemble a banana for even have a banana's coloring. It also had a spacious garden, in which guinea pigs grew more than any plant. Another original element were the names of the children. The children, as mentioned before, were named after the color chart, which was very unusual, yet delightful. Another original element was Caddy's driving lessons and tests. She would purposefully fail the tests so she could continue the lessons, as she had a crush on the instructor.
Saffy's Angel was an enjoyable read, and I would recommend it to anyone who wants a good book. It had memorable characters, comedy, and pure originality, making for a great book.
-Elizabeth H =]
Saffy's ReviewReview Date: 2007-02-15
Saffy's AngelReview Date: 2007-06-02
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